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FM-13 - Counterpart Adaptation Worksheet

Treat communication type as a hypothesis, never a diagnosis.

ObservationPossible need to testAdaptationGuardrail
Requests detail, avoids instant decisionAccuracy, risk control, review timeProvide evidence and time; ask what is missingDo not call delay obstruction without testing
Builds relationship, agrees readilyConnection, harmony, or avoidance of conflictConfirm hard commitments explicitlyWarmth is not performance
Speaks briefly and presses for resultEfficiency, authority, urgencyBe concise and direct; state conditionsDirectness is not permission to overpromise